Cor blimey mister, that's nowt like my experience - over 9k miles in just over a year.
OK, I'm not built like wot you are, nor am I quite as discombobulated physically, so my experience of a 2020 version is just that, my experience.
The points I can pick up on, starting with your last point first - I do look forward to rolling it out of the garage and going for a blat on it . . . cos its a Honda I know it'll get me home and it'll make some riders look twice as I swish past them.
I kind off get where your coming from regards the overall impression the bike "gives off", but if more people gave it a good long go, they might be suprised. I'm not speed merchant, so the overall performance of the bike is fine for me & my riding style (I'd call it smooth & steady, others might not
).
The frunk on my model is smaller than the 2021 onwards model (which I presume you owned as you mention permanantly on indicators) and yet it takes my Shoei multitech without a problem - I'm a medium as well. I routinley carry my repair kit and my brew kit in the frunk, including a 500g gas cannister, without problem.
Different strokes for different folks, as the saying goes.
Just my tuppence worth.
Steve T